Healthy dating boundaries
The guy texts back, using all the words he has to communicate in a 24-hour period on you.You instantly respond back with another five-paragraph essay. Your mom conveniently reminds you that men like a bit of a chase and this poor man was probably feeling bogged down by all the emotional effort involved in responding to your texts. Why Fast Isn’t Better Imagine trying to play a game of hide and seek and the person hiding stands right behind the seeker shouting “Here I am! After a while, the seeker would give up because the person hiding is no fun to play with. There is no suspense, no investment and no finding, which is always the best part of the game.They are lovingly arranged in chronological order and tucked away in a shoebox in our storage shed.Not long ago, I pulled out the shoebox and reread each letter, experiencing all over again the excitement of a new relationship, the uncertainty of reciprocated feelings and the hesitancy to let my heart run away with me.Our wedding took place just 14 months from the day we met, and that was almost 30 years, three kids, two dogs and three mortgages ago.I still have every precious card and letter we wrote to one another during that time.
Thanks to social media, our lives are saturated with the personal information of others.Whether through photos or blogs, we have an insider’s look into the lives of friends and strangers alike.